the ingénue with the exploding head

Now days too many people have forgotten that “Absence makes the heart grow fonder.” It does not kill a bond, but could possibly make it stronger. The idea that you can’t love someone or like them and still not want time to do the things you enjoy without them—without anyone—is a fallacy. Embrace the time you spend alone so you can revel in the time you spend with people. 

For the Cling Wrap of the world I know this is quite the challenge but if you remember the age old saying “You don’t know what you have until its gone.” it may be a bit easier to deal.

INCREASE YOUR VALUE, GIVE OTHERS THEIR SPACE…FEEL FREE TO TAKE UP YOUR OWN. 

There is obviously a reason I stopped talking to you, responding to your txts, and am ignoring you. It’s all because I want to. I don’t want you to try and figure out what’s wrong, I don’t want you to try and fix it. I want you to just realize that i’m making a conscious effort to burn the bridge between me and you and leave me alone. 

I really shouldn’t  have to say that. I’ve said enough. Now get that head out that butt of yours and open your eyes.


(maybe I’ll send this in a letter)